


The last method is one we used for the first time this year. It was Evan's idea since now he's in charge. Again, he thought it sounded like fun. Ladybugs. They will eat 30+ of the little green bugs a day. So Evan wanted to buy a tub of them to release in our yard. He was going to spend part of his salary to buy them, but instead we bought them for him as his Easter gift. We all had so much fun putting them in the garden. You have to put them out at night, so the pictures are a little dark, sorry. And it was great to see the ladybugs eating away the next day! Emily LOVES them. She calls them Be Bugs!Amy in her "gardening dress".
Evan planting white Salvia along the back of the house.
Emily watering with her new Easter present.
A cutting garden of Sunflowers, Cosmos, Zinnia, Bachelor Buttons plus a few tomatoes.
Pots of Ranunculus, Stock, and Delphinium. Irises in full bloom.


We have! Sean woke up at 2:30 this morning. Shift work does weird things to your body. Anyways, while I took a shower, he made us muffins. And he heroically substituted out several ingredients to make these! We've been cutting out sugar for awhile now, substituting Sucanat or honey for baking. I was out of bran, so he had to use oatmeal. And, to top it all off, we discovered recently that Amy is allergic to dairy! So he had to find something to use instead of buttermilk. Then he had to remember to make half without blueberries and half with since our family is a spit personality when it comes to fruit in muffins. Whew! I'm sure it was a lot more than he bargained for when he lovingly offered to make the muffins for me so I could get ready on time! Thanks honey! They turned out great.
"Trust God by letting your husband lead and resting in the fact that your security is based on the hope of Christ, not on your husband's choices. Comfort him when he blows it and don't respond with an arrogant attitude of superiority. The beauty of the whole thing is that your love will be demonstrated even more
powerfully when you support your husband in his failures as fervently as in his successes." Heaven at Home pg. 67
* It just dawned on me that quoting this section might lead you to believe that I think that my husband makes bad choices. Not only is this NOT true, but I would hate to imply that as well. Rather this chapter convicted me that I could do so much better at letting Sean lead in lots of little areas. And my attitude really needs to improve to help build him up. Many times I struggle with wanting to control situations and this quote encouraged me to trust Christ, not what might happen if I "lose" control.
Leslie will take questions up until next Friday and pick the winner on Monday. I hope you win! (I already own all three books!)
Everyday - One homemaking thing you do every day - Dishes
Freezer - Do you have a separate deep freeze? - Yes, but it is turned off right now
Garbage Disposal - Y/N? - yes and my husband says I work it too hard!
Handbook - What is your favorite homemaking resource? - Magazines, books and friends- I guess I can't name a favorite. I'm always learning!
Ironing - Love it or hate it? Or hate it but love the results? - Hate is too strong a word, but dislike, yes.
Junk drawer - Y/N? Where is it? - Yes, right by our phone.
Kitchen - Color and decorating
You can see a picture of our kitchen here. (I can't seem to upload it to this post for some reason.) The cupboards are painted a periwinkle blue. As we've had to replace appliances we've replaced them with black. The clock above the shelves I bartered for with lavendar that I grow in my yard. And I really like my roosters and Pig. They're just fun!
Love - What is your favorite part of homemaking?
I love anything that is creative: decorating, planning and preparing new and interesting meals, and organizing. I love cleaning out closets!
Mop - Y/N? - Yes, but my son likes to mop so I'm trying to train him to take over more of this job.
Nylons - Wash by hand or in the washing machine? - Um, I don't wear nylons. It's California!
Oven - Do you use the window or open the oven to check? - both
Pizza - What do you put on yours?
Fetta Cheese, olives, mushrooms, roasted bell peppers, zucchini, and sausage
Quiet - What do you do during the day when you get a quiet moment?
In the morning I read my Bible and other devotional books. Right now I'm reading Morning and Evening by Charles Spurgeon and the corresponding chapter that the verse was taken from, as well as the Valley of Vison. During the day, there's not too much quiet around here, but when there is I clean or check e-mail and blogs. In the evening, after cleaning (or sometimes before!) I like to read and blog.
Recipe card box - Y/N? - yes, and several notebooks
Style of house - What style is your house?
I have no idea what to call it. You can check it out here and here.
Tablecloths and napkins - Y/N? - Yes
Under the kitchen sink - Organized or toxic wasteland? - It's a disorganized mess!
Vacuum - How many times per week? -
We have hardwood floors so I sweep different parts of the house every day. The two bedrooms that have carpet get vacuumed once a week if I'm lucky.
Wash - How many loads of laundry do you do per week
I'm not sure. Laundry is not my strong area.
X's - Do you keep a daily list of things to do that you cross off?- No
Yard - Y/N? Who does what?
Yes we have a yard. My husband does most of it. I help out when I can. We're trying to teach our kids how to do some of the work too.
Zzz's - What is your last homemaking task for the day before going to bed? - Dishes or laundry
This week was full of surprises! Some were wonderful, some painful, but overall a very different week for us. I meant to blog about the little series over at Girltalk, and even took pictures, but that didn't happen. So here's our week in a nutshell.
Monday: I took pictures of our dinner table to show what I sometimes do to make a meal of leftovers special. My kids love using stem glasses. So it seems fancy to them if I use them. Thanks Leslie for your reminder about candles. My kids love those too. I'll have to pull those out sometime soon. Sean is easily pleased when it comes to meals. The leftovers were lasagna!

Evan tested for his next belt level in Karate. He passed and is now an "orange" belt! Way to go, Evan!
That same night my niece Abigail was born.
Tuesday: Drop everything to travel 6 hours round trip to visit Abigail, CJ, my sister Shauna and her husband, Aaron. I'm having trouble reading the pictures that my dad took so I'll have to post those later. My hands were too full holding Abby, and directing Emily to take any pictures. It was so fun to get to see her just 1 day old. It was well worth the drive.
But....I got my first speeding ticket on the way there. Yikes! I had 5 hours to contemplate my driving, God's discipline, and His previous grace to me in this area. (I've been pulled over several times, but never gotten a ticket before.) The ticket was, unfortunately, well deserved and the officer showed no mercy. How glad I am that God does show mercy. Even this ticket which will be a big one, ultimately shows God's grace to me. I drive like a race car driver and I'm not sure that anything short of the "spank" I got would have gotten my attention. Let's just say that until I can get the lead out of my right foot, I am setting the cruise control on my car EVERY time I get on the freeway.
Wednesday: I had my first meeting with the woman who runs our new homeschool group. I was really nervous for some reason and had a stomach ache all morning! The meeting went really well. The lady was very helpful, kind and sweet. The mom that had her meeting right before me is a friend of mine and it was so encouraging to see her. Then the woman after me told me all about some stuff that her 10 year old boy is participating in. I left feeling encouraged, strengthened, and hopeful that this group is going to be a good fit for our family.
Thursday: We actually stayed home! This is the usual for us, but this week it was out of the ordinary, and very welcome. Here's a cute picture of Amy reading to Emily. Those two are becoming inseparable!


Friday: All week long Amy has been looking forward to a very special Tea Party she was invited to by our neighbor and friend Tawni. They dressed up in their finest and had tea and cakes. Evan dressed up too and escorted Amy next door. Amy came home feeling like a princess!
We have company coming into town tonight. Evan's best friend Ryan moved last weekend. He and his dad are coming back for their cub scout's "Pinewood Derby" and one last goodbye. We're going to miss their family.
This week has highlighted quite a few changes that are instore for our family: new cousins, new homeschool group, new responsibilities for Evan, and an opportunity for new friends. I've been extremely emotional this week, feeling up then down, but with the odd realization that it's just emotions. Changes are hard to make. But God is good and I can trust Him that what He has for us in the future will be for our good and His glory.


Here are some pictures to show how I taught Evan. This way he can read them next year for a refresher course!
The first step is to remove all the leaves that didn't fall off on their own. (Picture on the left.) Then you need to cut away dead wood. The picture on the right shows a dead cane coming out of the center of the rose. You can tell it's dead by the color (black) and the sharp contrast of healthy wood to dead.

The next step is to cut back the plant. This is where the art and science of pruning come together. The pink growth bud pictured right below the clippers is where the next shoot will grow. The plant will send up the growth hormone strongest to the top. (That's the science.) The direction of the buds tells you the direction of the next branch. You want to have a bush that opens up like a vase with branches generally facing out. This gives space for air to circulate which cuts down on disease. This is where the art comes into play...where to make the cut. The good news is roses are very forgiving. You really can't kill it by bad pruning. My mom has always joked that you could take a chain saw to it and it would live; it just wouldn't be pretty.


Here's a picture of what it looks like when it's all done.

"Show me how to know when a thing is evil
which I think is right and good,
how to know when what is lawful
comes from an evil principle,
such as desire for reputation or wealth by usury.
Give me grace to recall my needs,
my lack of knowing thy will in Scripture,
of wisdom to guide others,
of daily repentance, want of which keeps thee at bay,
of the spirit of prayer, having words
without love,
of zeal for thy glory, seeking my own ends,
of joy in thee and thy will,
of love to others.
And let me not lay my pipe
too short of the fountain,
never touching the eternal spring,
never drawing down water from above."
"Make a joyful noise to the Lord, all the earth! Serve the Lord with gladness! Come into his presence with singing!" Psalm 100:2
"Delight in divine service is a token of acceptance. Those who serve God with a sad countenance, because they do what is unpleasant to them, are not serving Him at all; they bring the form of homage, but the life is absent." (Morning and Evening, evening of Jan 9th)
Ouch! That has been me on too many mornings. Serving my family's breakfast or math lesson up with a sad countenance. Yesterday Amy drew a picture of us at Trader Joe's. In the picture I was handing Emily a balloon, but I had "angry eyes". At first, I was offended, but afterward when I thought about it, she was probably right. I was probably scolding about something. Our kids see right through us.
So my prayer for today, and the rest of this year is for God to help me to be cheerful, to serve Him with gladness. Again Spurgeon writes,
"Cheerfulness is the support of our strength; in the joy of the Lord are we strong. It acts as the remover of difficulties...The man who is cheerful in his service of God, proves that obedience is his element....Let our gladness proclaim that we serve a good Master."
"Humble yourselves, therefore, under God's mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you." 1Peter 5:6-7
"And though my humbling wouldn't be my decision
It's here Your glory shines so bright
So let me learn that the cross precedes the crown
To be low is to be high
That the valley's where You make me more like Christ"